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Why this topic? Why now?

Why is Sabeel, a Palestinian Liberation Theology Center, publishing on the crisis of sexual harassment in Palestinian society?

Some readers may be uncomfortable with this topic being tackled while we are still suffering under the weight of the Occupation. Why do we want to “air our dirty laundry?” Will sharing these stories feed into prejudices against Palestinians, and against Arab men in general? Many times we have heard it said, “Let us achieve our human rights first, then we can deal with women’s rights.” In fact, this excuse is not unique to the Palestinian Liberation movement – this has often been arefrain among peoples fighting for liberation around the world. Sometimes it can feel that one struggle is simply enough at one time.

Others may wonder if Sabeel is simply riding the wave of the #MeToo movement, choosing to address this trending topic along with many other institutions grappling with stories of abuse, rape, and harassment perpetrated against women. Is it really necessary to have our #UsToo moment?

But we at Sabeel have chosen to address this critically important topic because we are a Palestinian Liberation Theology Center. This means that wherever there is injustice, we stand on the side of justice. Wherever people are oppressed, we stand for liberation. Whether we are talking about the occupation of Palestine, or the colonization of indigenous peoples, or the destructive forces of toxic masculinity in our homes, workplaces, and places of worship, we believe that Christ our Liberator requires us to stand with him, forfreedom.

We’ve never tackled this topic before. But now: Time’s up.

As we are a Palestinian Liberation Theology Center, we have looked Scripture to guide us in the exploration of this topic. Father NaimAteek has suggested we study Mark 5:1-20, the story of “Jesus Healing the Gerasene Demoniac.” While this passage does not deal with the issue of sexual harassment directly, we feel it has much to say about the way our society deals with demons—especially demons we’d rather not acknowledge.

The following reflections are the product of a recent group Bible study that took place in Jerusalem in February 2018. At the table were Fr. Ateek and several staff members and friends of Sabeel, including a local Lutheran pastor, three Palestinian women, and an international intern. We ranged in age from our mid-20s to mid-80s. We were five women and two men. We prayed, studied, and shared our own (sometimes painful) stories. We hope that these reflections from Palestine will be both a guide and an encouragement to you, wherever you are. Be not afraid to face the demons in your culture—even the ones your community prefers to keep hidden. Jesus has shown us: We all deserve better.

“We are many”

Atthe beginning of this story from Mark 5, Jesus steps out of a boat and immediately meets a man with an unclean spirit. This man lived among the tombs, in chains, which he often broke. In fact, he had wrenched them apart so often that no one had the strength to subdue him.

The possessed man saw Jesus from a distance and ran to bow before him. Surprisingly, a demoniac, not a disciple,is one of the first in the Gospels to recognize Jesus’ true identity. The man called him “Son of the Most High God”. He begged Jesus to stop tormenting him, for Jesus had demanded the unclean spirits leave the man’s body.

Then Jesus asked him, ‘What is your name?’ He replied, ‘My name is Legion; for we are many.’

Just as Jesus brought the name of the demoniac’s hidden tormentors into the open, at Sabeel we began our study by naming and confronting the demons possessing our society. What are we talking about, when we say “Sexual harassment”?

  • Unwanted touching, on buses or in the street
  • Cat-calling, and being followed
  • Abuse of foreigners, divorced women, and often anyone who is not “covered”
  • At the same time, abuse of women in Muslim burqas, as they are most likely not to report it (out of fear)
  • Inequality and harassment of women in the workplace
  • Absence of women’s voices in leadership – especially in the church, where many might turn for help
  • Rape and incest
  • Shame inflicted on victims of all the above—and in certain cases, even death.

“My name is Legion, for we are many” said the demon. One of the obstacles to dealing with sexual harassment in our society is that the problems are so many and so widespread. Everyone has heard the stories. We know which streets to avoid, and what clothes to wear. Nearly every woman has suffered harassment, abuse or worse. “This is just the way things are,” it is said. “We are a traditional society. What can we expect?” “Maybe she was inviting trouble.”

“I’m afraid to tell anyone. I’ll just be victimized again.”

It is time to bring these demons into the open, and to name them. When we say nothing, we are complicit in “normalizing” these behaviors.

Sexual harassment in Palestine is a problem of power. It is a problem of religion. It is a problem of a traditional, patriarchal culture.

And it is also a problem intensified by Occupation.

Scripture says of the demoniac, “No one had the strength to subdue him.” We recognize and confess the ways in which occupation has held us back in addressing these other demons in our midst. Just as the Gerasenesknew the demoniac well, and sent him to live on the edge of town, we also have been very aware of sexual harassment in our society. And yet until now, our response has been simply to bind upthe problem and keep it hidden from view.

For fifty years, we have worked and hoped and prayed for liberation from occupation—but we have often accepted that chains and secrets could subdue the toxic masculinity in our communities, at least until the occupation is ended.

“What have you to do with me, Jesus?”

What does Jesus have to do with this demon in our midst? First and foremost, we notice how in this text, Jesus refused to allow the man to continue living in chains. He liberated him, both from the chains and from the unclean spirits that kept him bound. As we see it, the man possessed by the legion of demons does not represent one abuser in particular, or even men in general. We understand the demoniac to be our Palestinian society and community.  We are all in chains until women are liberated. We are all living among the tombs until society is exorcised of sexual harassment, and our complacency towards it.

Ultimately, Jesus set the man free by casting the unclean spirits into a herd of pigs, which ran off a cliff and drowned. This may seem a strange detail, and indeed someone in our Bible study asked the question: “What about the pigs? And what about the swineherds, who lost their source of income? Why would Jesus do that?”

This seemingly odd detail actually reveals much about how Jesus transforms our priorities as well as our lives. In the eyes of the swineherds (and perhaps of the entire village) those two thousand pigs were of much more value than a demon-possessed man living among the tombs. But as he does so often in the Gospels, Jesus subverts our assumptions, and redirects our priorities. Jesus demonstrates the immeasurable value of one person, even one demon-possessed person, when he refuses to let the cost of livestock stand in the way of healing, wholeness, and liberation.

In the same way, we hear Jesus, Son of the Most High God, saying to us:

A healthy society is of more value than the preservation of patriarchy or traditional culture! Liberating women from fear and trauma is a greater priority than hiding this truth about our communities!

When we seek to follow Jesus and make his priorities our own, human beings will always come over profit or self-interest. This is how we are obedient to the greatest commandment: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’

“Then they began to beg Jesus to leave their neighborhood.”

After the demoniac was healed, it’s interesting to note that the Gerasene community did not welcome Jesus with open arms, but in fact asked him to leave.“They came to Jesus and saw the demoniac sitting there, clothed and in his right mind, the very man who had had the legion; and they were afraid.” The people also saw what had happened to the swine, which they valued.  Jesus had changed everything—and they were not happy about it.

As Palestinian women—and women the world over—begin to more openly share their experiences of sexual harassment and abuse, there will be resistance. There will be those who wish this problem remained hidden, chained on the edge of town, silenced through shame.

But as we have learned through fifty years of praying, hoping, and struggling for liberation from Occupation, our existence is resistance. Women, and their stories, will not be silenced. Already, we see that things are changing in our communities.

Go, and tell

At the end of the story of the Gerasene demoniac, the liberated man begs Jesus to let him go away with him. But Jesus says:

“‘Go home to your friends, and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and what mercy he has shown you.’”

We honor all women (and men) who are so boldly sharing their stories with the world. This is the first, most important step in the exorcism and healing of our communities. Confession (both individual and as a community) is another. We need to look carefully at our institutions, places of worship, and especially our homes and schools, and seek ways to empower the next generation with the understanding that every body deserves honor and respect.

It is also imperative that as Christians, we continue to share how much the Lord has done for us. We must be bold witnesses to the truth that Jesus our Liberator wants no one to live in chains. Just as we continue to maintain the steadfast hope that the wall will fall, and the Occupation will end, we also believe that Palestinian society—and indeed, the world—will be exorcised of the unclean spirits of sexual harassment, abuse, rape, and violence against women. Inshallah. Let it be so.

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Le pardon

Considérations sur le Pardon dans le Contexte de l’Occupation, par le personnel et des amis de Sabeel.

« … Combien de fois devrai-je pardonner à
mon frère s’il ne cesse pas de pécher contre moi
? Jusqu’à sept fois ? Non, lui répondit Jésus, je
ne te dis pas jusqu’à sept fois, mais jusqu’à
soixante-dix fois sept fois. »
(Matthieu 18,21-22 – Trad. FC)

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CORNERSTONE N° 75 – Hiver 2016

Considérations sur le
Pardon dans le Contexte
de l’Occupation,
par le personnel et des amis de Sabeel.

« … Combien de fois devrai-je pardonner à
mon frère s’il ne cesse pas de pécher contre moi
? Jusqu’à sept fois ? Non, lui répondit Jésus, je
ne te dis pas jusqu’à sept fois, mais jusqu’à
soixante-dix fois sept fois. »
(Matthieu 18,21-22 – Trad. FC)

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To Set The Captives Free

Courage to Change Direction

“When John the Baptist heard in prison about Christ’s works, he sent some of his disciples to him. “Tell us,” they asked Jesus, “are you the one John said was going to come, or should we expect someone else?” Jesus answered, “Go back and tell John what you are hearing and seeing: the blind can see, the lame can walk, those who suffer from dreaded skin diseases are made clean, the deaf hear, the dead are brought back to life, and the Good News is preached to the poor. ” Matthew 11:2-6

CORNERSTONE – N° 74 – Edition française

Le Courage de changer de Direction

« Jean-Baptiste, dans sa prison, entendit parler des oeuvres du Christ. Alors il envoya quelques-uns de ses disciples demander à Jésus : « Es-tu le Messie qui doit venir ou devons-nous attendre quelqu’un d’autre ? » Jésus leur répondit : « Allez raconter à Jean ce que vous entendez et voyez : les aveugles voient, les boiteux marchent, les lépreux sont guéris, les sourds entendent, les morts reviennent à la vie et la Bonne Nouvelle est annoncée aux pauvres. »
Matthieu 11, 2-6.(FC)

 

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Cornerstone is Sabeel‘s quarterly English-language publication. It highlights Sabeel‘s ministry activities both locally and internationally as well as theological reflections on contemporary social and political events.